[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”624″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]M\u00f3j przyjaciel pewnego razu powiedzia\u0142 mi, \u017ce kiedy\u015b zakochiwanie si\u0119 i branie \u015blubu by\u0142o TAK PROSTE. \u017be ludzie nie mieli tych g\u0142upich w\u0105tpliwo\u015bci. Oni po prostu brali \u015blub, mieli dzieci i \u017cyli d\u0142ugo i szcz\u0119\u015bliwie. Przesz\u0142o\u015b\u0107 to by\u0142 czas prawdziwej mi\u0142o\u015bci!<\/p>\n
Ale wtedy spyta\u0142am go<\/p>\n
Naprawd\u0119 tak uwa\u017casz? Naprawd\u0119 my\u015blisz, \u017ce wszystko by\u0142o TAK proste? \u2026 Powiem ci, co ja my\u015bl\u0119. \u2026 My\u015bl\u0119, \u017ce MI\u0141O\u015a\u0106 rzadko by\u0142a powodem, dla kt\u00f3rego bra\u0142o si\u0119 \u015blub. Kobiety musia\u0142y mie\u0107 m\u0119\u017ca, \u017ceby mie\u0107 zapewnion\u0105 przysz\u0142o\u015b\u0107, \u017ceby mie\u0107 \u017bYCIE, kt\u00f3re nie by\u0142o pe\u0142ne rozczarowania ze strony rodziny. Kto wie, ile nieheteroseksualnych kobiet musia\u0142o \u017cy\u0107 w rozpaczy, rodz\u0105c dzieci, kt\u00f3rych nigdy nie chcia\u0142y? Ile kobiet zako\u0144czy\u0142o swoje \u017cycie z tego powodu? \u2026 Teraz, rzadko widz\u0119 staruszk\u00f3w spaceruj\u0105cych razem i trzymaj\u0105cych si\u0119 za r\u0119ce.. Widz\u0119 za to moje babcie i ich siostry, kt\u00f3re by\u0142y gn\u0119bione i zaniedbywane przez swoich m\u0119\u017c\u00f3w, nie wa\u017cne, jak bardzo stara\u0142y si\u0119 ich zadowoli\u0107. Wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 kobiet w mojej rodzinie jest rozwiedziona\u2026 My\u015bl\u0119, \u017ce przesz\u0142o\u015b\u0107 to czas udawanej mi\u0142o\u015bci. Mi\u0142o\u015bci, kt\u00f3r\u0105 by\u0142o wida\u0107 tylko na \u015blubnej fotografii, a p\u00f3\u017aniej nie zostawa\u0142 po niej \u015blad\u2026<\/p>\n
M\u00f3j przyjaciel nie powiedzia\u0142 nic wi\u0119cej.<\/p>\n
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My friend once told me that falling in love and getting\u00a0 married was SO EASY in the past. That people didn\u2019t have those stupid second thoughts. They would just get married, have children and lived happily ever after. The past was the time of the true love!<\/p>\n
But then I asked him<\/p>\n
Do you really think that? Do you think it was THAT simple? \u2026 I tell you what I think. \u2026 I think that LOVE was rarely the reason why people got married . Women had to have a husband in order to have a future, in order to have a LIFE that wasn\u2019t full of family disappointment. Who knows how many non-heterosexual women had to live lives of inner despair, giving birth to children they had never wanted? How many women ended their lives because of that? \u2026 Now, I seldom see old people walking together and holding hands. \u2026 What I see are my grandmothers and their sisters who used to be bullied and neglected by their husbands no matter how much they tried to please them. Most of the women in my family are divorced\u2026 I think the past was the time of the pretended love. Of the love that was visible only in the wedding photograph, and then it was gone\u2026<\/p>\n
My friend said nothing more.<\/p>\n
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