{"id":594,"date":"2022-01-27T21:05:32","date_gmt":"2022-01-27T21:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/?p=594"},"modified":"2022-01-27T21:16:36","modified_gmt":"2022-01-27T21:16:36","slug":"kathryn-bond","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/?p=594","title":{"rendered":"Kathryn Bond"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;597&#8243; img_size=&#8221;medium&#8221; add_caption=&#8221;yes&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][vc_column_text]<strong>Don&#8217;t make this into a sign and put it above your loo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tell them your grateful but don\u2019t be a suck-up. Let them inspire you but just be yourself. Run and walk before you can think and don\u2019t try too hard but be cool, but be better. Dream big but rent. Don\u2019t be bought but make time &#8211; make time for it all. It\u2019s happening, but don\u2019t get attached. Give less of a shit and don\u2019t want it too much. Relax. Unclench. Care. Impress, oh impress yes but rebel. It\u2019s fine. Don\u2019t panic. Looks like you\u2019ve got this. You take it from here. Your going? So soon? Yeah, it\u2019s over real quick.<\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nAt the moment..<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I don\u2019t want to wee on a stick.<\/li>\n<li>I feel lucky to have time to worry.<\/li>\n<li>My make up doesn\u2019t stay on. My pals don\u2019t seem to mind.<\/li>\n<li>I sometimes pretend to be my female friends if I\u2019m uncomfortable In a situation and I think they would handle it better if they were there. It helps.<\/li>\n<li>I struggle to finish a sentence because details are important, not interesting always but\u2026<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019ve said I don\u2019t want certain things throughout my life because that\u2019s what I felt was expected of a woman, but actually I do want them. Fuck.<\/li>\n<li>A lot of my closest pals are in pain because they want, don\u2019t want, are trying for a baby. It\u2019s come on quick.<\/li>\n<li>I would actually like to spend a day cleaning my flat.<\/li>\n<li>When some of your friends have kids you realise you were their kid for a long time.<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes you can ask too many people for advice.<\/li>\n<li>Trying to make your therapist laugh is not always the best use of time.<\/li>\n<li>I said some weird things to older women when I was younger about having kids.<\/li>\n<li>My mum got married young didn\u2019t she? Ok that\u2019s a question.<\/li>\n<li>I like art because of the community. Sometimes I like the people bit more than the art.<\/li>\n<li>Crying is actually a great opportunity.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Pleased you&#8217;re pleased<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m fed up with being a people pleaser<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s boring and tiring and in the end &#8211; no one is pleased.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Say what you really mean! Stop just saying yes. You are doing my head in.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Im trying &#8211; give me a sec.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t spend years trying to say the right thing then just flick a switch and fuck off. Then tell everyone to just \u2018fuck off.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Habits are hard.<\/p>\n<p>I was told to write a list of women i admire. None were walkovers and get this, almost all of them DRIVE.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve never driven.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll buy a bike.<\/p>\n<div class=\"\">\n<h4>Kathryn Bond<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;597&#8243; img_size=&#8221;medium&#8221; add_caption=&#8221;yes&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][vc_column_text]Don&#8217;t make this into a sign and put it above your loo Tell them your grateful but don\u2019t be a suck-up. Let them inspire you but just be yourself. Run and walk before you can think [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":597,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=594"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":603,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594\/revisions\/603"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/597"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartburnwomen.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}